“Nice Guy”
Thats what a lot of people call me. Followed by, “he’s sooo sweet”. Who are these people, friends, friends’ friends, family [some] and all my EX GIRL friends.

I’ve be in 4 relationships in my since high school, all of them were unique and amazing in their own way. This blog is a result of being dumped by number 4.

We dated for 2 years and she ended it, but apparently she is still in love with me, and shows it / expresses it when ever she feels like it. This is what I don’t get !!! and why becoz:

1. dumped coz she emigrated out of the country
2. dumped coz she fell in love with me and was getting dependent and that scared her
3. dumped coz she had some personal issues to sort out and she was dependent on me and needed to do this on her own
4. dumped coz she looks up to much to me, she is too dependent, she wants to spend all her time with me, she wants to share everything with me …..

as said to me and her friend

So the question is “WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?”…..

What is this Nice guy concept and this dependent thing, because the way I understand them they are good / positive things. But It looks like i may be wrong.

Pls: note this is honestly my first attempt at blogging, so would appreciate support in my evolution